Sunday, October 21, 2012

A work date

Photo by cyclonebill - found at Wikimedia Commons
Over the five years I've been a writer, I have never written any of my stories in a cafe. Or restaurant.

Maybe it's because I predominantly swing towards the extreme ends of writing. Long form features or short and succinct news. One requires tons of research and I am notorious for killing trees. The other requires only a smartphone and you can write stories standing. And as I generally do not require much external inspiration to write, I write in the office, or at home, or anywhere I can find a flat surface to sit on. I just don't believe in paying a premium for a workspace.

But yesterday I did. And it turns out to be quite pleasant. It felt weird at first because I have always wondered how people can just go to Starbucks, order expensive coffee, sit down, power up their laptops and work. I understand there's free wi-fi and people do go there to work. Alone. But when there is more than two people? What was the point?

After spending close to 5 hours at Starbucks, I finally realise the possible reasons why people do meet up to work.

1. These days our lives are getting busier than ever. Alongside work commitments, social commitments grow over time. On top of business meetings, you have your dinners with friends, farewells, birthday bashes, weddings etc etc. When you want to meet as well as work weekends, you meet and work!

2. Although writing is very much a solitary activity (which is why writers tend to live in their heads), some distraction is good. Though these days due to the Internet, we tend to distract ourselves with other people's writing. Some sort of conversation in between paragraphs can actually get the brain juices flowing.

3. Sometimes people watching can be fun. There was this young couple at the next table who can't stop checking out other people and providing commentary. And there was this French guy who was brokering a black market deal over the phone, loudly.

And so, the work is finished after about 5 hours and we head off for some entertainment to cap off the day. It was one of the toughest stories for me but I think it may take longer if I were to stare at the ceiling and wrench words out of my mind.

I may not be called a dinosaur yet, but my approach to life is pretty conventional and traditional. That's why I used to think that when people meet, phones are best tucked away. That said, there is a difference between being totally engrossed with work/the phone and being present while doing work. It's kind of like one of my other friends, who could fiddle with the phone and still catch whatever conversation that is going on around the table.

Spending quality time together with friends and family is still the best. But being able just to spend time with people we care about whilst fulfilling our other duties is sometimes good enough.

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Spotted 1/52 (Week 2. 10.12)

Recovering from a cold is not fun. It is messy, the meds make you hyper drowsy, and for some reason or the other, you are very very hungry. This is bad news for me because I don't have the strength to exercise, and all I do is eat and sleep. My only consolation is that this ordeal will help me lose the few kgs that I intend to shed. Anyway, since I'm drugged and drowsy now, and determined to say one or two words, here's the second installation of spotted. My fave photos in between this post and... the last Spotted post.

Ok, this is a bit gross - it's a half eaten layered chocolate and coffee sponge cake  with fresh cream on top. When I saw the colour gradient, I had to take a picture! I don't know where this is from, but the baker is a genius! It tasted great too.

Spotted this in The Star. Nice, clean watch face with a cute dial that shows the date. I think this is my dream watch for now, if only I won the lottery yesterday.

Isn't the spiral-shaped stirrer absolutely cute? Makes the drink even sweeter than it actually is. If you are on a diet, stay away from this drink. It is really, really sweet. Spotted at The Garden, Mid Valley.

This... is one of the most pretty pictures I've taken with the iPhone. I think. But it's because this is a very beautiful place. Spotted at Straits Quay, Penang. Just behind this row of shops on the left is a marina that has a breathtaking view.

Smoked salmon sandwich at Blue Fish and Reef (I hope I got the name right). Wonderful salmon, not crazy about the bread. But if you take this outdoors, the sea breeze will make up for it! Spotted at Straits Quay, Penang.

Lovebirds spotted at a friend's wedding. So romantic!

Now, this is really an act of eating your heart out. This fish paste at 100C steamboat restaurant off Jalan Kuchai Lama is  quite the delicacy there. 

Mmm... cheesecake. Need I say more?

Scott Garden at Old Klang Road at night. The lighting gives the place a calm and serene outlook, even with loud music piping into several pubs close by.

So there you have it. Spotted #2. :) Will be back with more...

Saturday, October 6, 2012

The virtue of setting goals

Goals are, corny, at best. I mean, who wants to be reminded of the days when we wrote in our report card our goals for the coming term? Get an A for history, pass the Math exam.

Over the years I've learnt the virtue of simply just saying - I want to do this next year and this is what I am going to do to make it a reality. It makes you accountable, it gives you focus.

At first I never really meant it. I only set goals I knew I would achieve. Get X number of As in major exams, finish a project or yearbook. Finish X amount of books in a year.

But recently with changes in my personal and professional life I inadvertently started to mope and focus on the teeny weeny details that did not help me enjoy the journey as much as I thought I would. Until someone told me to write down my goals and keep it in my drawer so I do not lose sight of what I wanted in life.

I have no drawer at home so here's my list of to-dos before Dec 31, 2013:
1. Run a 10km marathon in under 1 hour
2. Exercise and meditate every day
3. Monthly day/weekend trips to all states in Peninsula Malaysia
4. Contribute an article to an international publication

In essence goal-setting shifts the mind to focus on the future and ensure that we could live in the present, because we would know that whatever we do now is a step towards our goal.

We'll see if I can cross most of these things on the list off next year. Fingers crossed!

9 craziest things I did so far

Courtesy of SkyJump (Auckland). Boy thinking about it still gives me the adrenaline high.
I consider my life rather average and nondescript. No roller coasters, no shocking developments. But I'm sometimes impulsively foolish and there's no end to the number of crazy friends I have in my life. In no particular order, here's the list. Will try to blog about them soon.

1. Jumped off a 192m building
2. Spent RM3 a day on food for 3 days
3. Took three weeks off to reflect on life at an isolated meditation centre
4. Built a man-made wetland
5. Buried my first lab rat
6. Went without sleep for 72 hours on a can of Livita
7. Swallowed my first escargot
8. Searched for worm eggs in monkey poop
9. Wore a saree with a petticoat a size smaller (and nearly died of oxygen deprivation)

Off to meet some people I haven't met for a very, very long time! I'm sure I could add to this list.